I'm quite glad to have some proof to back up my theory that all this stuff about regulating "treats" while dieting is a load of BS that just makes you obsessed with food and what you're not eating.
I worked out a healthy perfectly enjoyable regime which I thought would get my weight drifting downward and got on with it, got myself used to it. And once my body had adjusted its expectations as to what it was getting each day, it didn't grumble neither. (I suspect this is more easily acheived when you're living on your own)